This month we celebrated our 31st anniversary. It can't possibly be that long ago that I was a teenager and still living at home with my parents, yet on the other hand, being a teenager and living at home with my parents seems like a different book I read or a movie a saw. Once upon a time Jay had very thick, curly, black hair and I weighed 117 lbs. Once again, that must have been a different movie. Things have certainly changed. Especially how much more I love Jay. He is my best friend.